The Adele Concert, and facing fears

March 9, 2017
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I was one of the 60,000 people who attended Adele’s first Brisbane concert on Saturday night as part of the Adele Live 2017 tour, and what an experience it was!  It was an incredible night of fun as well as turning out to be a night of facing fears, for both Adele and I. 

Fun

We drove to a nearby bus station, met up with some friends, and caught the bus into Woolloongabba.  We had allowed heaps of time as advised in the media so decided to go for a drink at the Australian National Hotel, just across the road from The Gabba (Brisbane Cricket Ground).  The hotel even arranged an Adele pre-party for us!  We thought it might have been a private party but no, it was open to all, so up the stairs we went!

adele, pre party, party,

Soon we made our way over to The Gabba, grabbed some food to eat and then went through Gate 7 and found our seats.  What a fabulous view we had (see top image)!

Just before 8pm Adele arrived and the crowd roared with excitement.  Her first song was of course ‘Hello’.  I filmed some snippets of the concert on my trusty phone.  Some I’ll share in this post.  You can see more on my Instagram or Facebook page.

She sang all the favourite songs.  There were big black and white balloons bouncing around at times.  There was smoke and fireworks and confetti with her handwriting on it.  Her voice is incredibly powerful and moving.  Equally engaging is her banter between songs.  She truly does make you feel like one of her mates she’s chatting away to.  She’s down to earth, very real and authentic, so funny, not in the slightest bit pretentious, and that laugh!!

The most theatrical song was ‘Set Fire to the Rain’ with plumes of smoke coming up from the stage and fireworks shooting out of the top of the stage set up.  The prettiest song was ‘Make You Feel My Love’ with the twinkling lights of all the audience mobile phones around the stadium creating a beautiful vision and atmosphere.  To be honest, I enjoyed EVERY song – each had something special about it.  The final song was ‘Someone Like You’.  By 10pm it was all over and I couldn’t believe what I’d just witnessed.  I’d just seen one of the world’s most famous female singers of our time perform live in my home town.  I nearly had to pinch myself!

If you’d like to see more video’s from the night head on over to my Instagram or Facebook page.

Facing Fears

Me

There’s no point denying the fact that as excited as I was about seeing Adele live, I was suffering with anxiety on the day of the concert.  I’d read all the articles in the media about the expected chaos, the traffic bedlam, the lack of adequate public transport, the crowds, the predicted thunderstorm and rain etc. 

I don’t like crowds.  I don’t like feeling trapped.  I don’t like chaos.  I don’t like not being in control.  I was anxious, very anxious.  However, I didn’t want my anxiety to ruin this fabulous opportunity for me, so I went anyway.  I faced the fear head on and thankfully it turned out not to be anywhere near as bad as I had built it up to be in my head.  We got on a bus to the concert easily and straight into Woolloongabba with no problems at all.  Getting out of the stadium at the end of the concert and home took longer but we were home before midnight and without any drama.  Anxiety has a tendency to create worse case scenario’s and possibilities in your mind that most likely will never eventuate.  My anxiety was exacerbated by reading too many news articles.  I have learnt that I need to NOT read the melodramatic writings of news columnists when it is on a subject likely to trigger anxiety within me! 

As a side note, I’ve got to say well done to The Gabba, the Brisbane City Council, Translink and everyone else involved in the organisation of the Adele concerts at The Gabba.  It may have been the largest crowd ever accommodated at The Gabba, and there may have been no nearby train station to relieve the pressure on the Woolloongabba busway station but hey – it all worked out pretty darn good!  Job very well done!

Adele

Adele too had to face a fear on this night.  She openly admitted she was very nervous.  She endeared herself to everyone with her honesty.  “I talk a lot when I’m nervous” she said.  What courage it must take to stand there on that stage with the focus of 60,000+ people on her.  Talented or not, famous or not, no matter how many times you did it, it would be a confronting thing to do! 

Not only that but I admire how she is so authentically herself.  Many people faced with the possibility of judgement on the scale that she is might put up a bit of a pretence, pretending to be something other than their true selves, someone who they think would be more liked by the masses.  Adele doesn’t do that.  She’s down to earth, genuine, and unashamedly her real self.  She swears freely.  She screams when a bug scares her.  She tells us how she is missing her man.  She says what’s on her mind, like “I think they should shut up with their bloody moaning” her now famous dig at the Brisbane City Council and all the melodrama in the media about the venue for her concert being unsuitable.  She does make you feel like you’re a mate she’s chatting to.  It is because she ‘felt her fears but did it anyway’ by choosing to stand on stage in enormous stadiums and share her talent with her fans, and to be her authentic self, that she has endeared herself to so many.  She’s a real person.  She’s a real person with the gift of a magnificent and powerful voice. 

We all know I love a good quote so on this occasion the following quote came to mind.

I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear ~ Nelson Mandela

An Update:  In my post last week I wrote of my excitement of seeing Adele perform live and the opportunity of a life time for her to meet me and have one of her dreams come true.  It may shock you, but it didn’t happen.  It was too public I believe.  I’m expecting her people to contact my people (still got to get some yet) any day to make arrangements to fly me to Sydney for a private meeting with her.  I am writing my ‘what to pack’ list as we speak.  Actually I don’t mind waiting till she is in Melbourne because I haven’t been there since 2012!

Oh, before I forget … huge thank you to my three “kidults” for the tickets for Christmas!!

Did you go to either of the Brisbane Adele concerts?  Did you love it like I did?  Did you go to the Perth concert?  I heard it was fabulous too!  Going to the Sydney, Melbourne or Adelaide concerts?  Are you excited?  You will love it!

Ciao for now,

P.S.  If you think there’s any truth to the ‘an update’ paragraph let me assure you that apart from writing a post last week about my excitement at seeing Adele perform live being true, the rest is not.  I’m just a bit of a fruitcake at times!  Life can sometimes be too serious!  Being a fruitcake and being a bit silly is one way of having a bit of fun and #lovinlife

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30 Comments

  • Reply Ingrid @ Fabulous and Fun Life March 9, 2017 at 6:57 am

    I love that Nelson Mandela quote. It is so very very true! I’ll have to write it down to remind myself of it next time I am anxious about going somewhere or doing something!

    I’m so glad you had such a wonderful time at Adele!

    Ingrid
    http://www.fabulousandfunlife.blogspot.com.au

    • Reply Min March 9, 2017 at 4:32 pm

      It’s a great quote isn’t it? I had a fabulous time at Adele! πŸ™‚

  • Reply Sydney Shop Girl March 9, 2017 at 7:28 am

    So glad you had such a great time at Adele!

    SSG xxx

    • Reply Min March 9, 2017 at 4:32 pm

      Thanks SSG! πŸ™‚ xo

  • Reply Kat March 9, 2017 at 7:50 am

    Good on you for recognising your anxiety but getting out there anyway! It can be really tough to overcome that feeling and do the things that you really want to do. #lovinlife

    • Reply Min March 9, 2017 at 4:34 pm

      I really couldn’t back out of this one. Apart from really wanted to see Adele perform, my kids gave us those tickets for Christmas. I wouldn’t want to disappoint them. It’s good to face down fears though. It does make you stronger for next time. πŸ™‚

  • Reply Kathy Marris March 9, 2017 at 7:55 am

    I would have loved to go. You are so fortunate that your kids bought you tickets. I couldn’t justify the expense with my Italy holiday looming in 7 weeks time. I’m so glad you overcame your fear of crowds and went along to the concert. It looks like you had a fab time. πŸ™‚

    • Reply Min March 9, 2017 at 4:35 pm

      I think if I had an Italy holiday coming up in 7 weeks, I could get over not going to see Adele. How exciting for you! It was a lovely, thoughtful gift from the kids. They know how much I love Adele’s voice and music. πŸ™‚

  • Reply Sue March 9, 2017 at 9:25 am

    I love Adele and as I live near the Gabba I could hear the concert. It is always endearing to see that performers admit nerves. They are human after all. Loved your images and videos and on Instagram as well. Glad you had a wonderful time.

    • Reply Min March 9, 2017 at 4:36 pm

      Oh yes I remember you saying on my last Adele post. Hope the traffic and parking wasn’t too chaotic in your street! Such a bonus that you could hear it all. It was an awesome concert! πŸ™‚

  • Reply JODIE FILOGOMO March 9, 2017 at 10:42 am

    Min..it’s such a pleasure reading about your experience!!
    I’m not a huge lover of concerts—probably for the facts that you talked about—the crowds, the noise—eeekk!
    But it’s so nice to hear that someone who has made it big is still down to earth and seems like a “real” person!!
    I’m so glad you went—and getting over your fear is a huge accomplishment!! I’ve seen that quote before and it really hits home for me too!
    jodie
    http://www.jtouchofstyle.com

    • Reply Min March 9, 2017 at 4:38 pm

      Thanks Jodie! I’m not a huge lover of concerts either. As you now know I’m not a fan of huge crowds. BUT for an artist I really love like Adele – I will go! I could probably count on one hand how many concerts I’ve been to. However, I’ve been to lots of musicals – love them! πŸ™‚

  • Reply Leanne | crestingthehill March 9, 2017 at 11:25 am

    So glad that you had a fabulous time. Conquering your fear is a huge step – I guess the payoff needs to be more rewarding than giving into the anxiety. Every time we step up and things turn out well it gives us more courage to do it all again. We’re off to see Matilda in a few weeks – a bit out of my comfort zone, but it will be great once we’re settled in and enjoying the show.

    • Reply Min March 9, 2017 at 4:40 pm

      Thanks Leanne! The payoff certainly was rewarding enough to compensate for the anxiety. It does make you stronger and more courageous for next time when you face down fears. Matilda will be fabulous! I’m sure you will love it. I go to musicals a lot – no anxiety for theatre thankfully … but a crowd of 60,000 is a little more up the scale! Eeek! πŸ˜‰

  • Reply Jo March 9, 2017 at 1:01 pm

    What a fabulous fabulous night it must have been. I’ve enjoyed your clips too – thank you πŸ™‚ Well done for conquering your fear too. #teamlovinlife

    • Reply Min March 9, 2017 at 4:41 pm

      It was incredible Jo. Glad you enjoyed the clips! πŸ™‚

  • Reply Janet Camilleri aka Middle Aged Mama March 9, 2017 at 3:55 pm

    Hehe love it when you’re being a fruitcake. Maybe that’s coz I’m one! Miss 20 adored Saturday’s concert as well πŸ™‚

    • Reply Min March 9, 2017 at 4:42 pm

      Yesss – a fellow fruitcake lover! I like being silly sometimes. So glad Miss 20 enjoyed the concert too. I don’t see how anyone could not – it was amazing!! πŸ™‚

  • Reply Jo Tracey March 9, 2017 at 4:00 pm

    I’ve avoided going to concerts because of my fear of crowds. The getting there is always ok, but it’s the whole getting home thing that freaks me. For Adele, I would have risked it though. Glad it was so fabulous.

    • Reply Min March 9, 2017 at 4:43 pm

      For Adele I did it too. I wouldn’t for just anyone! haha It was a wonderful experience. πŸ™‚

  • Reply Lyndall @ SeizeTheDayProject March 9, 2017 at 7:13 pm

    Well done for overcoming your fears and going along to see Adele Min. What a lovely evening you had. I’m quite jealous, as I would have loved to go too. I hate being in a crowd crush too. Leaving Suncorp Stadium is a nightmare … and I’ll be there next week!! Must overcome the fear and just go (even though I’m not so keen on Justin Beiber) #Motheroftheyear #TeamLovinLife

    • Reply Min March 14, 2017 at 11:19 pm

      Thanks Lyndall. You are a legend going along to a Beiber concert!! #MotheroftheYearForSure

  • Reply Sammie @ The Annoyed Thyroid March 10, 2017 at 11:33 pm

    I’m not really a big fan of stadium concerts but I’ll make an exception for Adele. Saw her tonight at ANZ stadium and if she was nervous in front of the 95,000 strong crowd, she didn’t show it. Her banter is as good as her songs – what a legend. If you come to Sydney for that tete a tete, be sure to let me know and consider taking me along as your personal note taker πŸ™‚

    • Reply Min March 14, 2017 at 11:21 pm

      So glad you enjoyed the concert Sammie! Don’t know how anyone couldn’t love it … great voice, great banter and so funny! No tete a tete in Sydney – think she reads my blog and it will be Melbourne for sure! πŸ˜‰

  • Reply Cat @ life through the haze March 11, 2017 at 1:50 pm

    Hey Min

    I am so glad you have a fabulous time at Adele. I am not really a fan but I can appreciate that it was an amazing night. I am so glad that you were able to push away the anxiety and enjoy the night. I must admit I am feeling like that about Midnight Oil in November and that is only 5000 ppl and local!!

    Loved reading about how much you loved the night. xoxo

    • Reply Min March 14, 2017 at 11:25 pm

      Thanks Cathy! With regards to Midnight Oil in November – 5000 people and local pffff – walk in the park! You’ll be fine I’m sure. xo

  • Reply Leanne @ Deep Fried Fruit March 12, 2017 at 9:50 am

    I feel like I am one of the very few people who didn’t go to Adele! It’s all through my Facebook feed. I’m more of a rock chick myself. I think Adele is amazing, but I wouldn’t go see her (unless someone gave me free tickets … then I’d be totally in!)
    I enjoyed seeing your Facebook feed.
    #TeamLovinLife

    • Reply Min March 14, 2017 at 11:26 pm

      Thanks Leanne – I’m a bit of a rock chick too – I enjoy so many different genres of music. I do love Adele though – her voice, her songs, herself! πŸ™‚

  • Reply Debbie March 16, 2017 at 6:23 pm

    I really enjoyed your post and I wish I had been able to get to a concert. Great to find your blog and the linky.

    • Reply Min March 16, 2017 at 10:40 pm

      Thanks so much Debbie. I’m so glad you enjoyed the post. The concert was fantastic!! πŸ™‚

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